Rebuilding My Life: A Journey with the Ohio Hispanic Coalition

In the blink of an eye, my life shattered.

I am a hardworking mother to a three-year-old girl who is my entire world. I lived with my daughter, my mother, and our dog, believing I had a solid foundation beneath me. But during a severe alcohol-related episode, my then-husband—the father of my child—forced us out of our home. In a single day, I found myself without a roof over my head and without a support system in this city. My employer stepped in to pay for one week in a hotel. It was there, sitting in a small room filled with fear and desperation, that I realized I had to rebuild from nothing.

The First Step Toward Hope

While searching for a lifeline, I heard about the Ohio Hispanic Coalition and their Soy Latina program. I remember that first phone call vividly. I poured out my heart, explaining how lost and alone I felt. I didn't even know where the first step was, let alone the path to a new life. But for the first time in a long time, I felt a shift. I felt seen. I felt heard.

The advocates at Soy Latina didn't just see a "case number"; they saw a woman in pain who needed a community. I often call them my "Guardian Angels." In that moment of relief, I started to believe—truly believe—that I could move forward.

A Journey of a Thousand Steps

Rebuilding a life isn't a single event; it is a process. When I joined the program, I was fighting battles on every front:

• Healing: I needed to process the trauma I had endured.

• Security: I needed to find a safe home for my daughter and mother while keeping my job.

• Justice: I needed legal support for divorce and custody proceedings.

  
  

Soy Latina walked with me through every single door. They connected me with housing resources, basic necessities, and legal advocacy. They integrated me into weekly emotional support groups and a trauma-healing program at OSU. But beyond the services, it was the humanity that saved me. It was the constant phone calls to check in, the steady presence in my life, and the unwavering reminder that I was never alone.

Finding the Strength Within

One of my most powerful memories is a conversation with my Promotora, Kassandra. She looked at me and said: “You are already doing so much for your daughter—don’t forget to see your own strength.” Those words became my anchor.

Today, my reality is one I once thought was impossible. I have achieved stability. I have full custody of my daughter. Our home is no longer a place of fear but a sanctuary of peace. I am stronger, more secure, and more independent than I have ever been.

A Message to My Sisters

If I had to describe my experience with Soy Latina in one word, it would be Transformative. To the women out there who feel like they are standing in the dark: You are not alone. You are stronger than you believe, and there is a path leading to a better life. Healing means choosing peace, learning to love yourself, and recognizing that you deserve safety, respect, and happiness.

The Power of Community Support

Community support is essential in times of crisis. When I first reached out to Soy Latina, I was overwhelmed. I didn't know where to turn. The support I received was more than just resources; it was a lifeline. The Ohio Hispanic Coalition provided me with the tools I needed to rebuild my life. They helped me find my voice and regain my confidence.

The connections I made through the program were invaluable. I met other women who faced similar challenges. We shared our stories, our fears, and our hopes. This bond created a safe space for healing. It reminded me that I was not alone in my struggles.

Embracing New Opportunities

As I moved forward, I began to embrace new opportunities. I enrolled in workshops that focused on personal development and career advancement. These sessions opened my eyes to new possibilities. I learned about financial literacy, job readiness, and self-care. Each step I took brought me closer to my goals.

I also discovered the importance of giving back. As I gained stability, I wanted to help others who were in similar situations. I began volunteering with Soy Latina, sharing my story and supporting women who were just starting their journeys. It was empowering to see others find their strength.

Looking to the Future

My journey isn't over. I dream of advancing my career and one day studying law so that I can be the advocate for others that Soy Latina was for me. My story is a reminder of what happens when the courage of a woman meets a community ready to catch her.

I believe in the power of resilience. Every challenge I faced has shaped me into the person I am today. I am committed to creating a brighter future for my daughter and myself. Together, we will thrive.

Conclusion

In conclusion, my experience with the Ohio Hispanic Coalition and the Soy Latina program has been life-changing. I encourage anyone who feels lost to reach out for help. There is a community ready to support you. You are not alone in this journey. Together, we can overcome obstacles and build a better life. Remember, healing is a process, and every step counts.